today this notion rings more true to me than ever.
people say things like that your twenties are there to find out who you are and what you want and a time to ask questions and to find answers. i guess there is something to that.
however, so far my experience has been that as i have figured stuff out more, new problems presented themselves to me and one answer held ten new questions.
on some days i find that thrilling -- the idea that i am growing, yeah becoming - that feels important and exciting. other times i feel stressed by not knowing what i should do, how i should prioritise things, how much time i should invest into my friends near and far, how much should i worry about my career, about family planning about taking steps to fulfill my dreams.
there is this little voice that tells me that really at this point i should know better what i want to do with my life, that i should have a plan, should have the next years mapped out - after all, i don't want to wonder for years and years what i should do with my life and then never actually do anything.
as i am writing this i get the impression that all this might be about accepting that mistakes are inevitable and that it is okay to get things wrong.
and more than that it is about trusting God. to trust when i say to him, "here is my life, i don't know the way, please lead me" that he will guide my steps, that he is in control and that my existence is not an accident and that my life won't be wasted.
“it’s never too late to be who you might have been.” – george eliot
“a self is not something static, tied up in a pretty parcel and handed to a child, finished and complete. a self is always becoming.” – madeleine l’engle
"for i know the plans i have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and future." – jeremiah 29:11
I'm at the exact same place right now! You are so not alone! Love you!
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